Ирина Малкина-Пых - Психология поведения жертвы

– Благодарю вас, теперь я все поняла, – радостно ответила глупая рыба. С этими словами она с силой выбросилась из воды, упав рядом с рыбаком.

Рыбак, уже упустивший двух рыб, сунул эту рыбу в сумку, даже не потрудившись проверить, дышит она или нет. Сумку на этот раз он плотно застегнул. Снова и снова закидывал рыбак свою сеть, но первые две рыбы не покидали своего укрытия.

Наконец он решил, что надо заканчивать, и стал собираться в обратный путь. Открыв сумку и убедившись в том, что глупая рыба не дышит, он отнес ее домой и отдал коту.

О чем эта история предупреждает и чему учит:

● Как бы умен и подготовлен ты ни был, в жизни обязательно возникнут трудные ситуации.

● Чужой опыт не всегда нам полезен, а часто даже вреден.

● Если жить чужим умом и советом, можно угодить в «лапы к коту».

● Иногда лучше расплатиться малой проблемой, не допуская большой трагедии.

● Если удача сама «попала в сумку», нужно застегнуть ее покрепче.

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