Брюс Фейлер - Секреты счастливых семей. Мужской взгляд

Мои интервью с создателями, авторами и актерами «Американской семейки» можно прочитать в статье «What “Modern Family” Says About Modern Families» от 21 января 2001 г., New York Times . Рид Ларсон и Марис Ричардс пишут о постоянном пересмотре договоренностей в Divergent Realities (с. 219). Размышления Джонатана Хайдта о рассказывании историй изложены в книге «Гипотеза счастья» (The Happiness Hypothesis) (с. 144–150). Чтобы узнать больше о Льве Толстом и его зеленой палочке, а также увидеть написанное им завещание, смотрите www.tolstoy.org.uk/biography.html.

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