Мэг Джей - Сверхнормальные. Истории, которые делают нас сильнее

Dante Cicchetti and Fred A. Rogosch, «Equifinality and Multifinality in Developmental Psychopathology», Development and Psychopathology 8, no. 4 (1996): 597–600.

Dante Cicchetti and Jennifer A. Blender, «A Multiple-Levels-of-Analysis Perspective on Resilience», Annals of the New York Academy of Sciences 1094, no. 1 (2006): 248–258; Suniya S. Luthar, Dante Cicchetti, and Bronwyn Becker, «The Construct of Resilience: A Critical Evaluation and Guidelines for Future Work», Child Development 71, no. 3 (2000): 543–562; Suniya S. Luthar, Jeanette A. Sawyer, and Pamela J. Brown, «Conceptual Issues in Studies of Resilience: Past, Present, and Future Research», Annals of the New York Academy of Science 1094 (2006): 105–115.

В этой книге при обсуждении жизненных трудностей я предпочитаю термину «травма» такие фразы и слова, как «неблагоприятные жизненные обстоятельства», «невзгоды» или «негативный опыт», поскольку они, как правило, описывают ситуации, статистически ассоциируемые с серьезными проблемами или риском, но все равно предполагающие возможность их преодоления или хотя бы некоторого улучшения. Термин же «травма» происходит от греческого слова, которое переводится как «рана», что, очевидно, изначально подразумевает определенный ущерб.

Ralph Nichols, «The Struggle to Be Human», Keynote Address at the First Annual Convention of the International Listening Association, Atlanta, GA, February 17, 1980, http://www.listen.org/resources/Nichols Struggle to be Human.pdf.

Leo Tolstoy, Anna Karenina (New Haven, CT: Yale University Press, 2014), 3.

Hole, «Gutless», by Courtney Love and Eric Erlandson, in Live Through This, DGC Records, 1994, по состоянию на 27 февраля 2017 года, https://genius.com/Hole-gutless-lyrics.

D. W. Winnicott, «Delinquency as a Sign of Hope» (выступление на конференции заместителей управляющих Борстальского исправительного учреждения для несовершеннолетних преступников, Колледж короля Альфреда, Винчестер, April 1967), по состоянию на 31 февраля 2015 года, https://johnwhitwell.co.uk/archives/general-archive-entries/delinquency-as-a-sign-of-hope.

Maya Angelou, I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings (New York: Random House, 2009), 53.

Shawn Carter, Jay-Z Decoded (New York: Spiegel and Grau, 2010), 12.

D’Vera Cohn, «At Long Last, Divorce», Washington, DC: Pew Research Center, June 4, 2010, по состоянию на 20 декабря 2015 года, http://www.pewresearch.org/2010/06/04/at-long-last-divorce; Центры по контролю и профилактике заболеваний, «Divorce Rates by State: 1990, 1995, and 1999–2011», National Vital Statistics System, 2013, по состоянию на 30 декабря 2016 года, https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/marriage-divorce.htm

Emmy E. Werner and Ruth S. Smith, Overcoming the Odds: High Risk Children from Birth to Adulthood (Ithaca, NY: Cornell University Press, 1992), 198.

Общий обзор законодательной базы развода по взаимному согласию сторон представлен в Herma Hill Kay, «Equality and Difference: A Perspective on No-Fault Divorce and Its Aftermath», University of Cincinnati Law Review 56 (1987): 1, по состоянию на 31 декабря 2015 года, http://scholarship.law.berkeley.edu/facpubs/1220.

См. обзор в E. Mavis Hetherington and Anne Mitchell Elmore, «Risk and Resilience in Children Coping with Their Parents’ Divorce and Remarriage», in Resilience and Vulnerability: Adaptation in the Context of Childhood Adversities, ed. Sonya S. Luthar (New York: Cambridge University Press, 2003), 182–212.

См. обзор в E. Mavis Hetherington and Anne Mitchell Elmore, «Risk and Resilience in Children Coping with Their Parents’ Divorce and Remarriage», in Resilience and Vulnerability: Adaptation in the Context of Childhood Adversities, ed. Sonya S. Luthar (New York: Cambridge University Press, 2003), 182–212.

См. обзор в Joan B. Kelly and Robert E. Emery, «Children’s Adjustment Following Divorce: Risk and Resilience Perspectives», Family Relations 52, no. 4 (2003): 352–362; Lisa Laumann-Billings and Robert E. Emery, «Distress Among Young Adults from Divorced Families», Journal of Family Psychology 14, no. 4 (2000): 671–687.

Tamar Lewin, «Poll Says Even Quiet Divorces Affect Children’s Path», New York Times, November 5, 2005, по состоянию на 22 января 2017 года, http://www.nytimes.com/2005/11/05/us/poll-says-even-quiet-divorces-affect-childrens-paths.html.

См. обзор Joan B. Kelly and Robert E. Emery, «Children’s Adjustment Following Divorce: Risk and Resilience Perspectives», Family Relations 52, no. 4 (2003): 352–362; Lisa Laumann-Billings and Robert E. Emery, «Distress Among Young Adults from Divorced Families», Journal of Family Psychology 14, no. 4 (2000): 671–687.

См. обзор в E. Mavis Hetherington and John Kelly, For Better or for Worse: Divorce Reconsidered (New York: Norton, 2003); Lisa Laumann-Billings and Robert E. Emery, «Distress Among Young Adults from Divorced Families», Journal of Family Psychology 14, no. 4 (2000): 671–687; Judith S. Wallerstein, Julia Lewis, and Sandra Blakeslee, The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: A 25 Year Landmark Study (New York: Hyperion, 2001).

Judith S. Wallerstein, Julia Lewis, and Sandra Blakeslee, The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: A 25 Year Landmark Study (New York: Hyperion, 2001), 298.

Joan B. Kelly and Robert E. Emery, «Children’s Adjustment Following Divorce: Risk and Resilience Perspectives», Family Relations 52, no. 4 (2003): 352–362; Lisa Laumann-Billings and Robert E. Emery, «Distress Among Young Adults from Divorced Families», Journal of Family Psychology 14, no. 4(2000): 671–687.

Lisa Laumann-Billings and Robert E. Emery, «Distress Among Young Adults from Divorced Families», Journal of Family Psychology 14, no. 4 (2000): 671–687.

Lisa Laumann-Billings and Robert E. Emery, «Distress Among Young Adults from Divorced Families», Journal of Family Psychology 14, no. 4 (2000): 671–687.

Lisa Laumann-Billings and Robert E. Emery, «Distress Among Young Adults from Divorced Families», Journal of Family Psychology 14, no. 4 (2000): 671–687.

Judith S. Wallerstein, Julia Lewis, and Sandra Blakeslee, The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce: A 25 Year Landmark Study (New York: Hyperion, 2001).

Paul Alexander, Rough Magic: A Biography of Sylvia Plath (New York: Da Capo Press, 2003).

Virginia Satir, The Satir Model: Family Therapy and Beyond (Palo Alto, CA: Science and Behavior Books, 1991).

E. Mavis Hetherington, «Coping with Family Transitions: Winners, Losers, and Survivors», Child Development 60, no. 1 (1989): 1–14; E. Mavis Hetherington, «An Overview of the Virginia Longitudinal Study of Divorce and Remarriage with a Focus on Early Adolescence», Journal of Family Psychology 7, no. 1 (1993): 39–56; E. Mavis Hetherington and John Kelly, For Better or for Worse: Divorce Reconsidered (New York: Norton, 2003); см. обзор в Joan B. Kelly and Robert E. Emery, «Children’s Adjustment Following Divorce: Risk and Resilience Perspectives», Family Relations 52, no. 4 (2003): 352–362.

D’Vera Cohn and Rich Morin, «American Mobility: Who Moves? Who Stays Put? Where’s Home?», Social and Demographic Trends Report (Washington, DC: Pew Research Center, December 17, 2008), по состоянию на 30 декабря 2015 года, http://www.pewsocialtrends.org/2008/12/17/who-moves-who-stays-put-wheres-home.

Miller McPherson, Lynn Smith-Lovin, and Matthew E. Brashears, «Social Isolation in America: Changes in Core Discussion Networks over Two Decades», American Sociological Review 71, no. 3 (2006): 353–375; см. также классический труд на эту тему Claude S. Fischer, To Dwell Among Friends: Personal Networks in Town and City (Chicago: University of Chicago Press, 1982).

E. Mavis Hetherington, «Should We Stay Together for the Sake of the Children?» in Coping with Divorce, Single Parenting, and Re-Marriage, ed. E. Mavis Hetherington (Mahwah, NJ: Erlbaum, 1999), 93–116.

Timothy S. Grall, «Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2011», Current Population Reports no. P60–246 (Washington, DC: US Census Bureau, October 2013), по состоянию на 1 января 2016 года.

Timothy S. Grall, «Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2011», Current Population Reports no. P60-246 (Washington, DC: US Census Bureau, October 2013), по состоянию на 1 января 2016 года.

Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi, The Two-Income Trap: Why Middle-Class Mothers and Fathers Are Going Broke (New York: Basic Books, 2003).

Timothy S. Grall, «Custodial Mothers and Fathers and Their Child Support: 2011», Current Population Reports no. P60-246 (Washington, DC: US Census Bureau, 2013), по состоянию на 1 января 2016 года.

Lenore J. Weitzman, The Divorce Revolution: The Unexpected Social and Economic Consequences for Women and Children in America (New York: Free Press, 1985), 16–41.

Elizabeth Warren and Amelia Warren Tyagi, The Two-Income Trap: Why Middle-Class Mothers and Fathers Are Going Broke (New York: Basic Books, 2003).

Elizabeth Warren, A Fighting Chance (New York: Metropolitan Books, 2014).

Adam Phillips and Barbara Taylor, On Kindness (New York: Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 2009).

Michael Rutter, «Resilience in the Face of Adversity: Protective Factors and Resistance to Psychiatric Disorder», British Journal of Psychiatry 147, no. 6 (1985): 598–611.

Tamar Lewin, «Poll Says Even Quiet Divorces Affect Children’s Path», New York Times, November 5, 2005, по состоянию на 22 января 2017 года, http://www.nytimes.com/2005/11/05/us/poll-says-even-quiet-divorces-affect-childrens-paths.html?_r=0; Elizabeth Marquardt, Between Two Worlds: The Inner Lives of Children of Divorce (New York: Three Rivers Press, 2005).