Джесс Хилл - Больная любовь. Как остановить домашнее насилие и освободиться от власти абьюзера
- Название:Больная любовь. Как остановить домашнее насилие и освободиться от власти абьюзера
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В этой мастерски написанной работе известная журналистка исследует проблему домашнего насилия со всех сторон. Джесс Хилл смело отвечает на неудобные вопросы о том, как и почему общество создает насильников, но не в состоянии защитить своих жертв, последовательно демонтирует ошибочную логику обвинений жертв и бросает вызов всему, что вы знали о физическом и эмоциональном насилии, приводит реальные истории пострадавших и показывает путь к выходу из кризиса.
«Больная любовь» – книга о любви, насилии и власти, которая актуальна сегодня как никогда.
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43. P. Cameron, Relationship Problems and Money: Women talk about financial abuse , WIRE Women’s Information, 26 August 2014.
44. Ibid .
45. Ibid .
Глава 3. Психика абьюзера
1. Heather Douglas & Tanja Stark, Stories from Survivors: Domestic violence and criminal justice interventions , T. C. Beirne School of Law, The University of Queensland, 2010.
2. John Gottman and Neil Jacobson, When Men Batter Women: New insights into ending abusive relationships , Simon & Schuster, 1998.
3. Ibid., p. 89.
4. Ibid., pp. 90, 92.
5. Ibid., p. 74.
6. Ibid., pp. 114–16.
7. Ibid., p. 110.
8. Ibid., pp. 93–6.
9. Ibid., p. 86.
10. Ibid., p. 90.
11. Ibid., p. 93.
12. Ibid., p. 38.
13. Ibid., p. 30.
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21. Ibid.
22. Quoted in Allan J. Tobin & Jennie Dusheck, Asking about Life , Cengage Learning, 2005 p. 819.
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28. Bancroft, Why Does He Do That?
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Глава 4. Стыд
1. Neil Websdale, Familicidal Hearts: The emotional styles of 211 killers , Oxford University Press, February 2010.
2. Bancroft, Why Does He Do That? , pp. 151–8.
3. Helen Block Lewis, Shame and Guilt in Neurosis , New York: International Universities Press, 1971.
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5. R. L. Dearing, & J. P. Tangney (eds), Shame in the Therapy Hour , Washington, DC: American Psychological Association, 2011.
6. Christian Keysers, ‘Inside the mind of a psychopath – Empathic, but not always’, Psychology Today , July 2013.
7. Katie Heaney, ‘My life as a psychopath’, Science of Us , August 2018.
8. Donald L. Nathanson, Shame and Pride: Affect, sex, and the birth of the self , New York: Norton, 1992, p. 220.
9. Robert Karen, ‘Shame’, The Atlantic Monthly , February 1992, pp. 40–70.
10. Peter N. Stearns, Shame: A brief history , Urbana; Chicago; Springfield: University of Illinois Press, 2017.
11. The Tomkins Institute, ‘Nine affects, present at birth, combine with life experience to form emotion and personality’.
12. D. L. Nathanson (ed.), The Many Faces of Shame , New York: The Guilford Press, 1987, p. 21.
13. Jim Logan, For Shame: The Current , UCSB, February 2016.
14. Brené Brown, ‘Listening to Shame’, TED Talk, March 2012.
15. Donald L. Nathanson, Shame and Pride, pp. 303–78.
16. Ibid., p. 359.
17. Robert M. Sapolsky, Behave: The biology of humans at our best and worst , New York: Penguin, 2017.
18. Ibid.
19. Quoted in Jon Ronson, So You’ve Been Publicly Shamed , New York: Riverhead Books, 2015.
20. Penelope Green, ‘Carefully smash the patriarchy’, The New York Times , 18 March 2019.
21. James Gilligan, ‘Shame, guilt, and violence’, Social Research , 2003, 70(4), pp. 1149–80.
22. Alyssa Toomey, ‘Nigella Lawson choking incident: Photographer describes scene as «so violent»’, E! News (online), 9 January 2014.
23. James Gilligan, Violence: Reflections on a national epidemic , New York: Vintage Books, 1997, p. 111.
24. Judith Graham, Bulletin #4422, Violence Part 2: Shame and humiliation , University of Maine, 2001.
25. Germaine Greer, On Rage , Melbourne: Melbourne University Press, 2008
26. Michelle Jones, A Fight About Nothing: Constructions of domestic violence , PhD thesis, University of Adelaide, 2004.
27. D. G. Dutton & S. K. Golant, The Batterer: A psychological profile , New York: Basic Books, 1995.
28. Ibid.
29. Erich Fromm, The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness , Penguin, 1973, p. 323.
30. N. S. Websdale, ‘Of nuclear missiles and love objects: The humiliated fury of Kevin Jones’, Journal of Contemporary Ethnography , 2010, 39(4), pp. 388–420.
31. J. Brown, ‘Shame and domestic violence: Treatment perspectives for perpetrators from self psychology and affect theory’, Sexual and Relationship Therapy , 2004, 19(1), pp. 39–56.
32. Allan G. Johnson, The Gender Knot: Unraveling our patriarchal legacy . Philadelphia, PA: Temple University Press, 2005.
33. Brené Brown, ‘Listening to Shame’, TED Talk, March 2012.
Глава 5. Патриархат
1. Kathy Caprino, ‘Renowned therapist explains the crushing effects of patriarchy on men and women today’, Forbes , 25 January 2018.
2. European Union Agency for Fundamental Rights, Violence Against Women: An EU-wide survey , Luxembourg: Publications Office of the European Union, 5 March 2014.
3. Peta Cox, Violence Against Women in Australia: Additional analysis of the Australian Bureau of Statistics’ Personal Safety Survey, 2012 , Sydney: ANROWS2016.
4. David Leser, ‘Women, men and the whole damn thing’, The Sydney Morning Herald , 9 February 2018.
5. Michael Ian Black, ‘The boys are not alright’, The New York Times , 21 February 2018.
6. Elise Scott & Elise Pianegonda, ‘Heterosexual, white men with jobs «aren’t included in anything», Canberra Liberal MLA says’, ABC News (online), 21 September 2017.
7. Johnson, Th e Gender Knot , pp. 5–12.
8. Ibid., p. 64.
9. Terrence Real, How Can I Get Through to You?: Closing the intimacy gap between men and women , Simon & Schuster, 2010.
10. Tim Winton, ‘About the boys: Tim Winton on how toxic masculinity is shackling men to misogyny’, The Guardian , 9 April 2018.
11. Maree Crabbe & David Corlett (dirs), Love and Sex in an Age of Pornography , documentary, 2013.
12. A. Armstrong, A. Quadara, A. El-Murr & J. Latham, ‘The effects of pornography on children and young people: An evidence scan’, Melbourne: Australian Institute of Family Studies, 2017.
13. Gail Dines, ‘Choking women is all the rage. It’s branded as fun, sexy «breath play»’, The Guardian.
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15. Maree Crabbe, ‘Porn as sex education: A cultural influence we can no longer ignore’, The Guardian , 3 August 2016.
16. Gail Dines, Pornland: How porn has hijacked our sexuality , Beacon Press, August 2010.
17. Megan S. C. Lim et al., ‘Young Australians; use of pornography and associations with sexual risk behaviours’, Australian and New Zealand Journal of Public Health , June 2017.
18. Miranda Horvath et al., Basically… porn is everywhere: A rapid evidence assessment on the effects that access and exposure to pornography has on children and young people , Office of the Children’s Commissioner, 2013.
19. P. Weston, ‘New data shows Gold Coast’s domestic violence crisis being fuelled by links to pornography’, Gold Coast Bulletin , 7 October 2016.
20. bell hooks, Feminism is for Everybody: Passionate politics , Pluto Press, 2000.
21. bell hooks, The Will to Change: Men, masculinity, and love , Simon & Schuster, January 2004, pp. 6–7.
22. Ibid., p. 7.
23. Andy Hinds, ‘Messages of shame are organized around gender’, The Atlantic , 26 April 2013.
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