Джастин Барисо - EQ. Эмоциональный интеллект на практике [litres]

Мои дети, Джона и Лили, вдохновили меня на совершенно новый уровень эмоций. Джона так похож на меня, что я не могу поверить своим глазам и ушам. Лили полна сюрпризов, а от ее очарования меня не может спасти никакой эмоциональный интеллект. (Надеюсь, она будет пользоваться им во благо.) Каждый день я полон гордости за этих двоих и благодарю бога за то, что он подарил мне удовольствие, ответственность и радость растить их.

И, наконец, моя жена Доменика. Я знал, что ты особенный человек, еще в первую нашу встречу. Ты не устаешь меня поражать. Мы женаты десять лет, и с каждым днем я люблю тебя все сильнее. Ты помогаешь мне стать хорошим человеком. Ты все для меня. Без тебя я пропаду – в буквальном смысле слова.

С тобой я самый счастливый человек на земле.

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