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Особая благодарность моим матери и отцу. Спасибо, что вырастили меня с уверенностью, что я смогу достичь своей мечты, и убеждением, что секс должен быть приятным и его можно открыто обсуждать. Спасибо за то, что научили меня, как важно улучшать жизни других людей. Конечно, вы вряд ли думали, что я буду делать это, повышая общественную осведомленность о клиторе, но вы поощряли меня и гордились моей работой.

Бесконечная любовь и благодарность мужу и дочерям. Спасибо, Гленн, мой лучший друг и вторая половина, за то, что поддерживал меня и прошел вместе со мной и этой книгой весь путь от начала до конца, со всеми взлетами и падениями. Спасибо, Дженнифер и Эллисон, за ваши идеи, предложения, любовь и поддержку. Спасибо, что побуждали меня упорно следовать за мечтой, и прежде всего за то, что каждый день делали мою жизнь лучше просто своим присутствием, — быть вашей матерью ни с чем не сравнимая радость.

И наконец, спасибо тем, кто должен остаться безымянным: женщинам и мужчинам, которые поделились для этой книги своим опытом, в том числе студентам с моего курса человеческой сексуальности, которые разрешили мне анонимно использовать их ответы в моей работе.

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