Жан-мари Буасвер - Я всегда знаю, что сказать! Как развить уверенность в себе и стать мастером общения
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Хотите, чтобы в жизни все всегда складывалось, как вам хочется? Для этого необходимо обнаружить и использовать свои лучшие качества. Эта книга поможет вам разобраться в себе и преодолеть все преграды на пути к успеху.
В первой части вы найдете ответы на многие вопросы, которые давно себе задаете. Узнаете, как избавиться от излишней тревожности и неуверенности, преодолеете зависимость от окружающих и повысите свою самооценку.
Вторая часть книги откроет все секреты общения. Вы научитесь правильно вести разговор с любым собеседником, умело обосновывать просьбы или отказы, отвечать на критику, разрешать конфликты, ориентироваться в мире языка жестов. Результаты исследований, мудрые советы и эффективные практические упражнения сделают вас уверенным в себе человеком и настоящим мастером общения.
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Метод решения проблем все больше и больше используется, чтобы помочь людям в разрешении их межличностных конфликтов, и оказывается очень эффективным. Вот несколько ссылок.
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